Friday, November 28, 2014

Wearing Your Vintage Past

"If you have lived, take thankfully the past."

John Dryden

WEARING YOUR VINTAGE PAST

Who we were in part we be

As today's reflection we now see

Bringing forward the best of   what once we had worn

Leaving behind the ugly and the torn

Vintage garb that made you unique

Past and present gladly meet

The ugliness of then how cast aside

And just its beauty now worn in pride

It is ok to wear your vintage past

And admire it in the looking glass

If it's the best of you from then

In todays fashion you frolic in

Welcome the Fresh and New

"Gratitude is an art of painting adversity into a lovely picture."

KAK SRI

WELCOME THE FRESH AND NEW

Stumps left of once were grand towering trees

Now a barren foreground adds to the sadness of how things once were

But looking past a depressing scene

Is brand new life thriving out there

Young vital nature making its existence known

Is now the art we will all embrace

Thankful now for the new that's grown

Into yesterday's memories with a happy new face

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Quotes pertaining to loss

"I've always heard every ending is also a new beginning, we just don't know it at the time, I'd like to believe that's true." -Emily Prentiss

"Loss is a wound, healing takes time. How much time depends on how well you use the memories." M. Beatty

"The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone." -Harriet Beecher Stowe

"If only I had taken the time to express everything he meant to me my grief would not be smothering me so. But in all the world there would never have even been enough time to express what I wanted to say. I only hope my heart and his heart together felt our mutual admiration." M. Beatty

"The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living." -Cicero

"You trusted me with your love. Be assured you can trust me with your memory." M. Beatty


Missing Him on the Special Days

Alphonse de Lamartine 1790-1869

"Sometimes only one person is missing, and the whole world seems depopulated"

MISSING HIM ON THE SPECIAL DAYS

Memorial day was special for him

As he read the paper, the front page news

His smiling picture on the wing of his plane

Brought him to tears about how much time he used

Three weeks later he was gone

Peacefully he passed away

For weeks thereafter folks gathered around

Expressing kindness in the words they'd say

Easter brought memories about how he cherished

Watching the kids dart around our big front yard

Gathering colorful Easter eggs

His joy swelled in his festive heart

On the fourth of July he always mused

About how baby Ryan slept through the colorful show

As fireworks burst loudly in the sky

He made me tape them so later Ryan would know

In August came that special day

Remembering how he held my hand so tight

He wasn't a bit ashamed to cry

As our precious son arrived so healthy and bright

Together we were always on some new mission

I remembered fondly on Labor day

With trailer in tow and horses prepped and groomed

We were usually heading to some horse show far away

The niece and nephews and Ryan of course

Were always a big part of our planned adventures

I had 33 years with Bob by my side

Yes, He was missed dearly this past September

We together always enjoyed Halloween

The kids chose their costumes and grabbed their sacks

Walking door to door we may well have been kids

We had our share of good times and that's a fact!

Now here comes Thanksgiving and he is not here

He always loved a bountiful feast

Though I'm surrounded by loved ones, Bob is still gone

The emptiness strangles me, to say the least

And I look ahead to Christmas coming fast

It will be six months to the day

More holidays will come, this isn't the last

But all the firsts without him are so hard to take

Birthdays and anniversaries

Even ordinary days have something to say

When the memories crop up, sure I smile

But sadness soon follows, it's another lonely day





Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Seasons in Time

"Life is full of happiness and tears. Be strong and have faith."

Kareen Kaphore Khan

SEASONS IN TIME

Arriving to build condos in the trees

Living, swaying in the smooth spring breeze

The birds have arrived to have their young

It is then a life's new chapter has begun

Children clinging to a string

Of floating kites among the birds that sing

No more hats and gloves for quite some time

Remember when ice cream cones were just a dime?

Schools release the anxious youth

Of summer hours they make good use

Sunny beaches and slippery slides

You won't find the adventurous children inside

Comes the fall and school bells ring

What awesome colors that autumn brings!

The leaves, they fall in silent surrender

Touching the earth so crisp and tender

Children in new duds reclaim their status

After a too short summer hiatus

Football fields glow brightly on Friday nights

New school crushes will soon ignite

Now the winter wind will blow

And coat the earth with soft, white snow

Holidays bring joy to cold winter blues

The bears are smart to hide and snooze

So is life each year we find

Another piece of us left behind

And through the years we are counting down

Tomorrow a loved one won't be around

Seasons come and seasons be

Then go before you can count to three

Life is a carnival, life is a sport

And a good life is always much too short

Monday, November 24, 2014

From Christmas eve 2013

Thinking of my friends on Christmas Eve

Hoping you are happy and warm

Staying tucked in until Christmas day

Out of the cold and winter storms

I pray you will enjoy seeing the children

And generations young and old

Opening gifts well chosen

Given with all the love a heart can hold

The most important thing to remember

Is to send a prayer or two

Thanking Jesus for his sacrifice

And how much He means to you

Then when you are saying your goodbyes

To send the loved one's on their way

Send another prayer to our Lord

For all a safe journey home this Christmas day

From 12/31/13

A heart intruded upon my life

When I realized the importance of you

Never a feeling so strong

Has held me so captive

So it is now that when I say goodbye

And know I may never hold you close again

I break into pieces when I walk away

And a sadness remains a part of me

That I store within that many times lonely heart